Infidelity Today

What is going on with infidelity today? It seems as though many people are just beginning to tolerate their cheating spouse. Many believe that the economy has a lot to do with this. In fact, the economy is not only destroying marriages, but it's making people tolerate misery.

Sources say that surveillance has declined by 75%. What does that mean? It means more and more, people are not using the services offered by a private investigator to catch their spouse cheating. This is terrible considering people still want to use the services, they just can't afford it.

People can no longer afford stopping affairs, so they are forced to tolerate them. If you can't afford the services of a private investigator, and think your spouse may be cheating, it's best if you learn how to uncover the affair yourself, and learn some sneaky, at-home Private Eye Tricks.


It's more than just checking their phone for text messages. And what about deleted texts? Do you know how to get them?

It used to be that you could look for hotel receipts or check the credit card statement, buy economic times are difficult, and even cheating spouses are cutting back.

Instead of a night at the hotel it's a romp in the back seat of the car in some tucked away parking lot. No more fancy dinners or weekend getaways.

I also just read a statistic from divorce lawyers. The poll suggested divorce is down 37%. This, on the surface, sounds like a good thing. But the reality is that people are just not spending money on this either. It's cheaper to stay with your spouse than divorce.

This is particularly true when the female is a stay at home wife. With unemployment at the rate it is, it's too difficult for her to find work, so without the support of her husband, she feels hopeless.

That said, she is likely to "deal" with her husband's affair rather than face the fear of being left alone with nowhere to turn.

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Brandon Grittini is the author of the E-Book "Cheating Spouses Revealed". It's a comprehensive book that is instantly downloadable from the internet and can be delivered to you in a matter of seconds. You will be walked through an affair from how they happen, how to catch your spouse cheating, and finally, how to recover from the affair. To get your copy, visit http://CheatingSpousesRevealed.com and sign up for the FREE 21 page report!
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Catch A Cheating Spouse: Fake Your Caller ID

Catch your spouse cheating with this cool little trick I just learned about. If you ever wonder if your spouse is cheating on you, this is a stealth method for catching them.

You're not gonna find this trick everywhere, but there is an article about it that I posted on an article site. This could piss off a lot of cheaters, because it's a useful way to catch your lover cheating without them knowing it's you!

It's gonna piss the cheater's off because they think they will be talking to the person they are cheating with, and you will shock them with the reality that it's you!

Now, I could tell you more about it, but I'd like you to read the article I posted. You'll learn what the trick is, how to use it, and where to get it!

So go read my article, and learn how to catch a cheating spouse!

10 Signs Of Cheating

Well, it's been a while since my last blog. I apologize for that. I've been busy designing my homepage, and when it's finished, I think you'll agree that it is exactly what you need.

In the meantime, I've been publishing articles like crazy to try and help you with your relationship issues. In fact, I just published an article today that addresses top 10 signs of cheating.

Give the article a read and let me know what you think. Don't forget to check http://advice.lovedetour.com. I've been writing articles over there and they seem to be working well for people judging by the feedback I receive.

Until next time!

Secret Affairs: Sex After Infidelity

Secret Affairs. They Suck!! But if you want to recover and share a life with your partner, there is a huge hurdle...Sex After Infidelity!

It's a big question for a lot of people, and it's important to share sexual love with your spouse to find total happiness. But it's tough because a major trust has been violated.

In order to have sex after infidelity you have to re-establish trust in the relationship. You have to communicate your feelings and establish what is really preventing you from sharing yourself with your partner again.

If you were the cheater, you have to be open and understand that your partner has been hurt, and it is up to you to prove your trust. If you were the victim, you need to understand that if you want the relationship to continue, you will eventually have to forgive your partner.

I've written an article that you can view by clicking here.

The article talks about having sex after infidelity. Enjoy!

To Your Relationship!

Brandon

Affairs and Infidelity

I have a lot of people asking me about affairs lately, and maybe they have good reason. There are a lot of studies out there that try and gather statistics on the number of affairs. The problem is, affairs are so secretive that even the data we do have is probably skewed because people still don't feel comfortable telling the truth in anonymous studies.

What we do have suggests that affairs are very much common place. There are several reasons for this, but one of the greatest reasons is the growth of women in the workplace. Now, I don't want to suggest in any way that I blame women for this, because it is absolutely not there fault. However, their presence in the workforce has made infidelity much more accessible.

There was a time when the majority of women were housewives; they stayed at home and cared for the children and the home while the husband was out at work providing financially for the family. While the husband was at work, his place of business consisted of mainly men, with very few females. It would be very difficult to strike up a workplace affair. It would also be difficult for a woman who is a stay at home mother to carry out an affair while she is with the children.

With the growth of women in the job market, affairs become much more simple to execute. A work-place affair can grow from a simple business lunch, a dinner meeting, an after work cocktail, all the way to a full fledged affair.

Affairs aren't always a plan. Sometimes they really do "just happen." That is not, however, an excuse for having one. You see, a lot of the time, these meaningless lunches and dinners help to facilitate a friendship. They begin very casually, as most friendships do, where you really just start to learn a little about the other person. Then they begin to grow. You begin to share your goals and dreams, and confide in the other person by sharing the difficulties you are having in your life.

Soon, these friendships grow to feel more like dating. You can share so much more with this person than you can with your spouse. Why? This person is their for you, to listen to you, to comfort you. Your spouse used to be like this, but now everything turns into a fight. You can't share your true feelings.

Most of the time these affairs don't work out. In fact, when a couple that was having an affair decides to get married, the divorce rate is above 80% for that couple. See, when you are having this affair, it is a false relationship. Affairs, while tempting, lack the emotion necessary to sustain a long term status. They ignore faults in on another, which is interpreted as a false feeling of love.

So if you are having problems with your current relationship, my advice is to not rush into any type of affair. You were married to the person you are for a reason; you love that person. So work on that marriage and be their for your spouse. Marriage is not easy. No one ever claimed that is was.

The biggest lie we live in our lives is the courtship of our spouse. We try to impress, to become this wonderful person that we think the other wants to be with. Then, when we reach the pinnacle, marriage, we quit working at it, and expect something different. Why is it that during the courtship we work so hard to please our partner, but once we are married we stop?

You have to go back to working on your relationship. Start from the beginning. Think about the things you did together that you enjoyed, the conversations you shared, the things that brought you together, that made you fall in love. Do these things. Communicate with your spouse all of your feelings, and listen while they communicate yours. Marriage does take a little work to be successful, so work at it.

If you quit working on your marriage, you will have difficulty in it. To expect something different and not work at it is the definition of insanity. Spend some time learning your spouse again, and an affair won't even be a thought for either of you!